威尼斯人娱乐场官网friends on the net,friends in your life?

“Social Networking “, a very successful movie. It seems to imitate the
hero’s road to success. Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, the
youngest billionaire in the history, but a 26-year-old young man lived
in a rented house.
        There are three things I learned from the movie:

影片中的关于剽窃,背叛都没啥感觉,这类题材的电影太多了。但能反映得最exclusive的只有一点,社交网络的,所谓web2.0的意义,这只能通过facebook本身来说明。mark和我们很多nerds一样,不大会和人打交道,更不大会和异性打交道,即使是在他的facebook成功之后也不能改变这一点。社交网络的关键在于show
yourself,让别人谈论你,then you can be
friends,影片中的mark拥有无数的好友,tbbt中的sheldon也说过在facebook上有200+好友,但现实中呢,mark唯一的挚友却因为他的背叛在控告他。
所以说社交网络中的friends确切的说只是观众和评论者而已,不用买票就能看一个人的生活,喜怒哀乐都有,而且还能评论几句…而可悲的是很多人还会为别人的这几句评论而满足,感觉自己被noticed,how
sad,他们不会对你的生活有任何改变,有任何帮助。过度的沉寂于社交网络的人不会免于孤独,只能是越发孤独。现实中我们是怎么成为friend的?因为我们被一起安排到一个特殊的场合而认识,然后互相感觉到对彼此有用,所以我们成了朋友。

从第一季,Annie穿着洁白的婚纱开始,到第十季,人走楼空只剩下空空如野的紫色公寓,这一段快乐的旅程简单而纯真,充斥着欢乐也满是感动。一路上见过乔伊的单纯,莫妮卡的固执,菲比的古灵精怪,罗斯的可爱小气,瑞秋的美丽善良以及最爱的钱德的所有。感觉自己已经成为了这个老友中群体中,与他们几个隔银屏相望的一员,每每在生活缺乏快乐的时候,总会想到他们,戴上耳机,听听那熟悉的旋律,看几段几乎可以倒背如流的关于你们的故事,我总会笑的很开心,没有负担,没有烦忧,简简单单只是快乐。

     
我本人是极力推崇自己的事情自己做的人,可我发现很多人,都热衷于“互帮互助”。扒光了说,就是我的事情你做一半,你的事情我做一半,明明自己可以完成的事情非得两个人去完成,浪费时间浪费人力,大家对于这种状况还乐此不疲。这是我不能理解,或者说不愿意理解的,或许这就是现代职场人的“情感交流”方式,以此来证明我们是friend?

我们把别人当做很好的朋友,可是又有多少人把我们当做朋友呢!我们自以为是是别人的朋友,但是在别人的心中我们就是一般般而已。

  1. In this society, you can not be a gentleman to achieve success.
  2. Read at least three times before you sign any agreement.
  3. Your best friend can betray you for his own benefits.
            This story happened in Harvard university, the best learning
    community in the world. The university chancellor in the movie said
    “Every body in Harvard is doing their something”. It sum the situation
    of this community the best. In personal relationships, the personality
    is one of the most important things. There are diversity personality
    showed in the movie. In Harvard, there are student like Winklevoss twins
    and Mark. The Winklevoss twins come from a wealthy family and they do
    crew. They were in the coolest club in Harvard. Unlike Mark, he came
    from middle class family and do nothing to attracted girls. Diversity
    also shows in their personalities. In the Winklevoss twins, Carmelo is
    more patient than Taylor. Taylor tried to suit Mark at the beginning
    moment that he found their idea is copied but his brother Carmelo stops
    him. Carmelo want to be a gentleman until he found Facebook is expand to
    the U.K. Although it is the conflict between the twins, their
    communication solved conflict. Taylor listens to his brother Carmelo.
    Unlike the conflict between Winklevoss twins and Mark, they communicated
    throughout email mostly. Mark’s personality tend to be not as gentle as
    the twins. He is more like a tech geek. Although he wanted to create the
    company with Eduardo but not the twins . Mark did not reject them
    directly, instead he create the company without the twins. This conflict
    results in a law suit. Another law suit that Mark involved in is with
    his ex-best friend, Eduardo. At the beginning of the story, Eduardo is
    Mark’s best friend. As the CFO of Facebook, he tried to cash out from
    Facebook’s commercial value. But Mark did not want Facebook to be not
    cool. It is the beginning of the conflict. Until Mark met Sean, Eduardo
    became unsatisfied about Mark. As the company expand, the 30% stock
    owned by Eduardo gets diluted by Mark and Sean step by step. When
    Eduardo found out it, it is the max of the conflict. He suited Mark.
            Facebook went through many different stages. At beginning, there
    are only Eduardo and Mark in the company. From here, they only need
    money to buy server space and Eduardo solved this problem by writing
    checks to Mark. Than they get few interns in the team. Eduardo wanted to
    get some advertisements in Facebook but he failed. Because Mark want
    Facebook kept cool without advertisements. He kept support Mark move to
    California even though he is not satisfied with Sean. Mark worked in
    California during the summer and expand Facebook to more colleges. Then
    he expand Facebook from colleges in the U.S. to the U.K. Sean and Mark
    got invest by Peter Thiel who is an angel investor. Mark and Sean got a
    new place to work and they hits 1 million users and diluted Eduardo’s
    stock. Mark did not show his leadership in this team strongly. He made
    his decisions based on Sean’s advice. Even though he is the CEO of the
    team. He did not manage his relationship in the team very well. As a
    result, he gets no friends at the end of the movie.
            Mark needs to blame himself for this pathetic situation. Because
    he knows Eduardo is his only true friend in the world he did not cherish
    their friendship. He did not honest about the agreement that he asked
    Eduardo to sign. He thought Eduardo is an obstacle for the success of
    the company and diluted his stock by getting him sign the agreement that
    Eduardo did not read carefully because he trusted Mark.
            An “baster” and his relationships between other people is the
    center of the movie. What let the story of Zuckerberg becomes so
    fascinating is not only those disputes, but those disputes irony in
    Facebook. The reason that Facebook caused more topics than Google is
    because Google is designed to change the way we touch things, but
    Facebook is pointed directly into our relationships. Regardless of the
    development of technology to what extent, how coexistence between people
    are the most basic problems that the society needs to solve. When a
    people are apt to be able to have several hundred or thousands of
    “friends”, what does a “friend” mean? When interpersonal become more and
    more unilateral show, are we no longer alone or more alone? Zuckbergerg
    might sits in the dark theatre and watch the word he said few years ago
    said by other people on the screen.
            “Social Networking ” on one hand , it seems to reflect in some
    degree, and attempts to render the object exactly the same. On the other
    hand, it will eventually become a huge part of the manufacturing
    machines, ultra-high-speed record the history of mankind,

     

或许是我自己一直过得像个小孩,想法像小孩,努力装出大人的模样!

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